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Item specifics
- Condition
- Type
- Hardcover
- ISBN
- 9780593233672
About this product
Product Identifiers
Publisher
Potter/Ten SPEED/Harmony/Rodale
ISBN-10
0593233670
ISBN-13
9780593233672
eBay Product ID (ePID)
5050083418
Product Key Features
Book Title
Us : Getting Past You and Me to Build Amore Loving Relationship
Number of Pages
352 Pages
Language
English
Topic
Love & Romance, Marriage & Long-Term Relationships, General, Interpersonal Relations, Motivational & Inspirational
Publication Year
2022
Illustrator
Yes
Genre
Family & Relationships, Self-Help, Psychology
Format
Hardcover
Dimensions
Item Height
1.2 in
Item Weight
15.6 Oz
Item Length
8.5 in
Item Width
5.7 in
Additional Product Features
Intended Audience
Trade
LCCN
2021-040825
Dewey Edition
23
Reviews
"When I need advice, I call Terry Real. His decades of clinical experience, research and wisdom are invaluable to my patients, colleagues and friends. Us brings his advice to life. It is the book that we all need to read to create more thriving and intimate connections." --Esther Perel, New York Times bestselling author and podcast host of Where Should We Begin "Terry''s writing is loving and kind, clever and strong, and he''s written a beautiful and important book, particularly for the moment we are in. It helps lead the way to a more powerful and noble society based on the tenets of love, justice, and respect." --from the Foreword by Bruce Springsteen "Terry Real is a wise, honest, and charming guide. This book is a roadmap for all of us who seek true intimacy. It is full of relationship tools that can help you transform or deepen the way you connect with and understand your partner. Reading Us will also help you better understand yourself, your trauma and triggers, the patterns you tend to follow, and how you want to show up in the most important relationships in your life. Real''s approach teaches us how to step outside of the culture of individualism and embrace our interconnectedness. We can use it to heal a single relationship and to shift our collective culture." --Gwyneth Paltrow, founder and CEO of goop "Terrence Real''s work is nothing short of miraculous. In his latest book, he delves with precision and wisdom into the dynamics of modern relationships--to yourself, your partner, and society. He offers practical tools to create and sustain healthy self-esteem and true closeness with others. His work has quite simply changed my life. Read this book. It could well change yours." --Bradley Cooper "This is really quite a stunning book. With page-turning flair and brilliant insights, Terry Real exposes the hyper-individualism that ruins relationships--and shows us many effective ways to move from "me" to "we." A masterpiece from a master psychotherapist." --Rick Hanson, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness "Love has the power to hurt us but it also has the power to heal us, and Terry Real shows us how in this revolutionary guide to happy, thriving couplehood. Chock full of wisdom, research, and innovative teachings from his decades of clinical work developing Relational Life Therapy, Us is the book every human should read in order to truly understand not just their partners, but themselves." --Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed "Who are we, really? Terry Real powerfully offers a way to realize that we are both an internal Me and a relational We in this compelling guide to creating a liberated life of connection and meaning. This is a wonderful, wise, and witty book, consistent with cutting edge science and filled with soul and practical advicethat can inspire us to discover who we can become together." --Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. NYTimes bestselling author, Aware , Mind , Brainstorm , and IntraConnected, and Executive Director of Mindsight Institute "In his previous books, Terry Real awakened us to the fact that most men are not relational; they''re in their heads and out of their hearts. In Us , he not only elaborates on that thesis but, with the writing of a good novelist, brings his approach to transforming men and couples to life. This book will challenge you to examine how your trauma history and internalized individualism impact your relationships. Share it with your partner and then talk about what it brings up. It may be one of the most painful but also important conversations of your life." --Richard Schwartz, Ph.D. developer of the Internal Family Systems model of psychotherapy, "A beautiful and important book, particularly for the moment we are in." --Bruce Springsteen, from the foreword "It's cliche to say Dr. Terry Real's new book, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship , changed the way I view every relationship in my life. But it's true." --Katie Couric Media "When I need advice, I call Terry Real. His decades of clinical experience, research, and wisdom are invaluable to my patients, colleagues, and friends. Us brings his advice to life. It is the book that we all need to read to create more thriving and intimate connections." --Esther Perel, New York Times bestselling author and podcast host of Where Should We Begin "Terry Real is a wise, honest, and charming guide. This book is a road map for all of us who seek true intimacy. Real's approach teaches us how to step outside of the culture of individualism and embrace our interconnectedness. We can use it to heal a single relationship and to shift our collective culture." --Gwyneth Paltrow, founder and CEO of goop "Terry Real's work is nothing short of miraculous. In Us, he delves into the dynamics of modern relationships with precision and wisdom, offering practical tools to create true closeness with others. His work has quite simply changed my life. Read this book. It could well changes yours." --Bradley Cooper "This is a stunning book. With page-turning flair and brilliant insights, Terry Real exposes the hyper-individualism that ruins relationships--and shows us many effective ways to move from 'me' to 'we.' A masterpiece from a master psychotherapist." --Rick Hanson, Ph.D, New York Times bestselling author of Resilient "Love has the power to hurt but it also has the power to heal, and Terry Real shows us how in this revolutionary guide to happy, thriving couplehood. Chock-full of wisdom, research, and innovative teachings, Us is the book every human should read in order to truly understand not just their partners, but themselves." --Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone "This is a wonderful, wise, and witty book, consistent with cutting edge science and filled with soul and practical advice that can inspire us to discover who we can become together." --Daniel J. Siegel, MD, New York Times bestselling author, Brainstorm and IntraConnected "In his previous books, Terry Real awakened us to the fact that most men are not relational. In Us , he not only elaborates on that thesis but, with the writing of a good novelist, brings his approach to transforming men and couples to life. Share this book with your partner and then talk about what it brings up. It may be one of the most painful but also important conversations of your life." --Richard Schwartz, PhD, developer of the Internal Family Systems model of psychotherapy "Original and stirring . . . [Real's] approachable take on healing relationships will enlighten." --Publishers Weekly
Dewey Decimal
306.7
Synopsis
NEW YORK TIMES, WALL STREET JOURNAL, AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER * Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with the help of the renowned family therapist and author of The New Rules of Marriage "This book is a road map for all of us who seek true intimacy."--GWYNETH PALTROW, founder and CEO of goop ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Wall Street Journal Not much is harder than figuring out how to love your partner in all their messy humanness--and there's also not much that's more important. At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools. In his transformative book Us, Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results: repetitive fights that go nowhere, or a distant relationship in which partners end up living "alone together." With deft insight, humor, and charm, Real guides you to transform your relationship into one that's based on compassion, collaboration, and closeness. Us is a groundbreaking guide to a new science-backed skillset--one that will allow you to get past your knee-jerk reactions and tap into your wiser, more collaborative self. With a novelist's flair, Real shares the stories of couples whose relationships have been saved by these skills and pans out to the culture that reinforces our dysfunction. If you and your partner are backed into separate corners of "you" and "me," this book will show the way back to "us." With Us, your true relationship can begin., NEW YORK TIMES, WALL STREET JOURNAL, AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER - Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with the help of the renowned family therapist and author of The New Rules of Marriage "This book is a road map for all of us who seek true intimacy."--GWYNETH PALTROW, founder and CEO of goop ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Wall Street Journal Not much is harder than figuring out how to love your partner in all their messy humanness--and there's also not much that's more important. At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools. In his transformative new book Us, Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results: repetitive fights that go nowhere, or a distant relationship in which partners end up living "alone together." With deft insight, humor, and charm, Real guides you to transform your relationship into one that's based on compassion, collaboration, and closeness. Us is a groundbreaking guide to a new science-backed skillset--one that will allow you to get past your knee-jerk reactions and tap into your wiser, more collaborative self. With a novelist's flair, Real shares the stories of couples whose relationships have been saved by these skills and pans out to the culture that reinforces our dysfunction. If you and your partner are backed into separate corners of "you" and "me," this book will show the way back to "us." With Us, your true relationship can begin.
LC Classification Number
HQ734.R283 2022
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