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Harriet Goldhor Lerner The Dance of Deception (Paperback)
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- Book Title
- Dance of Deception : a Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women's Relationships
- Publication Name
- The Dance of Deception
- Title
- The Dance of Deception
- Subtitle
- Pretending and Truth-Telling in Women's Lives
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- ISBN-10
- 0060924632
- EAN
- 9780060924638
- ISBN
- 9780060924638
- Publisher
- HarperCollins
- Genre
- Psychology
- Topic
- General, Mental Health, Interpersonal Relations
- Release Date
- 28/03/1997
- Release Year
- 1997
- Language
- English
- Country/Region of Manufacture
- US
- Item Height
- 0.6in
- Item Length
- 8in
- Item Weight
- 8.3 Oz
- Publication Year
- 1997
- Item Width
- 5.3in
- Number of Pages
- 272 Pages
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When The Dance of Deceptionwas published, Lerner discovered that women were not eager to identify with the subject. "Well, I don't do deception" was a common resonse. We all "do deception", often with the intention to protect ourselves and the relationships we depend on. The Dance of Deceptionunravels the ways (and whys) that women show the false and hide the real -- even to our own selves. We see how relationships are affected by lying and faking, by silence and pretending and by brave -- but misguided -- efforts to tell the truth. Truth-telling is at the heart of what is most central in women's lives. It is at the foundation of authenticity and creativity, intimacy and joy. Yet in the name of "honesty", we can bludgeon each other. We can approach a difficult issue with such a poor sense of timing and tact that we can actually shut down the lines of communication rather than widening the path of truth-telling. Sometimes Lerner's advice takes a surprising turn -- for example, when she asks us to engage in a bold act of pretending in order to discover something "more real"; or when she tells us not to parachute down on our family to bring up a "hot issue" without laying the necessary groundwork first. Whether the subject is affairs, family secrets, sexual faking or the challenge of "being oneself", Lerner helps us to discover, speak and live our own truths.
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HarperCollins
ISBN-10
0060924632
ISBN-13
9780060924638
eBay Product ID (ePID)
20757
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Book Title
Dance of Deception : a Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women's Relationships
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Topic
General, Mental Health, Interpersonal Relations
Publication Year
1997
Genre
Psychology
Number of Pages
272 Pages
Dimensions
Item Length
8in
Item Height
0.6in
Item Width
5.3in
Item Weight
8.3 Oz
Additional Product Features
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Hq1206.L445 2003
Edition Description
Annual
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A remarkable, beautifully written book illuminating ways for women to find integrity, courage, and voice in a world that rewards female silence and pretense.
Copyright Date
2003
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33-000076
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