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Book Title
Making Marriage Work : New Rules for an Old Institution
Publication Name
Making Marriage Work
Title
Making Marriage Work
Subtitle
New Rules for an Old Institution
Author
Lynn Toler
Format
Trade Paperback
EAN
9781932841657
ISBN
9781932841657
Publisher
Agate Publishing, Incorporated
Genre
Family & Relationships, Psychology
Topic
Marriage & Long-Term Relationships, Interpersonal Relations
Release Date
27/09/2012
Release Year
2012
Language
English
Country/Region of Manufacture
US
Item Height
0.5in
Item Length
9in
Item Weight
9.2 Oz
Publication Year
2012
Item Width
6in
Number of Pages
224 Pages

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As the judge starring on the hit nationally syndicated television show Divorce Court , Lynn Toler witnesses, en masse, the thematic mistakes made in American marriages. She herself has also been wed for 22 years and has seen both the highs and lows of matrimony in her own marriage as well as the marriages of those close to her. While the national divorce rate hovers around the 50% threshold, there is a lot of chatter that marriage as we know it is an outdated institution--that we are too selfish, too unwilling to make sacrifices, and too misguided by elevated expectations of happiness to make marriage work. While these points may hold some validity, a lot of this chatter is nothing new. So what's causing so many divorces and, perhaps even more importantly, what are we to do about it if we want marriage to survive? Drawing from both her professional career and personal life, Toler sees that the biggest impediment to marriage these days is that couples decide to take the plunge based almost entirely on the most irrational criteria: falling in love. Making Marriage Work doesn't suggest that love has nothing to do with marriage at all; rather, Toler says that love by itself is simply not enough to make marriages survive. This book is a logical and simple guide to reintroducing some of the practicality of marriage that has leaked out of it over the years. Marriage, Toler says, is a job, and it needs to be treated like one. However, the makeup and consistency of this job has changed so much over the past few decades that the old rules no longer apply. Making Marriage Work is an updated manual to help get the job of marriage done right in this day and age. It suggests specific procedures that should be put in place to bridge the gap between head over heels and happily ever after. It explains how to phrase things in order to span the great hormonal divide men and women often fall into when trying to talk to one another. It also discusses the very new and real challenges to marriage created in a culture often overwhelmed by the emphasis on (and ability to attain) instant gratification. Replete with simple, no-nonsense rules, Divorce Court anecdotes, and stories about Judge Toler's own union, Making Marriage Work contains invaluable information couples can use today to secure their marital tomorrow.

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Publisher
Agate Publishing, Incorporated
ISBN-10
1932841652
ISBN-13
9781932841657
eBay Product ID (ePID)
127412180

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Book Title
Making Marriage Work : New Rules for an Old Institution
Author
Lynn Toler
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Topic
Marriage & Long-Term Relationships, Interpersonal Relations
Publication Year
2012
Genre
Family & Relationships, Psychology
Number of Pages
224 Pages

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Item Length
9in
Item Height
0.5in
Item Width
6in
Item Weight
9.2 Oz

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Lc Classification Number
Hq734.T695 2012
Reviews
PRAISE FOR LYNN TOLER AND HER PREVIOUS BOOK MY MOTHER'S RULES : "Easy-reading prose and a no-nonsense approach will carry readers through this collection of anecdotes and rules for healthier living...the book's strength lies in the sober, no-nonsense advice." -- Publishers Weekly "[An] awe-inspiring memoir and self-help guide." -- Ebony " My Mother's Rules reveals the complicated life of 47-year-old Toler...and it shines a light on the humble life of Toni Toler, a Columbus stay-at-home mom whom the judge praises as 'an incredible emotional manager.'" -- Cleveland Plain Dealer "Toler makes Divorce Court work by employing her past experience as an Administrative Judge in Cleveland Heights Municipal Court. She also uses lessons she learned from her mother, who she said was 'tremendous at understanding people's emotions.'" -- Jet "Toler's verdicts [are] homespun wisdom dispensed with a cut-the-bull edge. She [is] as likely to cite her mother's advice as she [is] a precedent-setting decision." -- Cleveland Scene "Toler's humor and wit are some of the characteristics that fans of [ Divorce Court ] will pick up on quickly - her no-nonsense human sensibilities are another. Something very endearing about the judge is her perceptive nature for the different types of issues and people that come through her studio courtroom." -- Kenya M. Yarbrough, EURWeb.com, [Toler's] sense of humor is a welcome companion to her practicality; for example, her take on Divorce Court: "Yes, I know the show is a bit extreme, voyeuristic, and, well, often a little silly, but if you listen past the anger, I sincerely believe that the people on the show have something to teach us all." Happily, Toler is neither extreme nor silly in her "how to" book on marriage, and the result is a hands-on, practical guide for couples at every stage of marriage., Using her own marriage [and its troubles] as example, author Lynn Toler subtly lets readers know that having marital problems isn't anything shameful or abnormal but that it is fixable. In this book, she looks at how a marriage bruises, then she offers solid advice for newlyweds, Golden Anniversary celebrants, and everybody between. Toler then hints that the work is never done but that the rewards can be worth the effort. Never preachy or holier-than-thou, I think "Making Marriage Work" is good to read whether you've put a ring on it recently or decades ago. If you want to glue your "I do," get hitched to this book soon., As the judge starring on the hit nationally syndicated television show Divorce Court, Lynn Toler witnesses, en masse, the thematic mistakes made in American marriages. She herself has also been wed for 22 years and has seen both the highs and lows of matrimony in her own marriage as well as the marriages of those close to her., PRAISE FOR LYNN TOLER AND HER PREVIOUS BOOK MY MOTHER'S RULES : Easy-reading prose and a no-nonsense approach will carry readers through this collection of anecdotes and rules for healthier living...the book's strength lies in the sober, no-nonsense advice." — Publishers Weekly "[An] awe-inspiring memoir and self-help guide." — Ebony " My Mother's Rules reveals the complicated life of 47-year-old Toler...and it shines a light on the humble life of Toni Toler, a Columbus stay-at-home mom whom the judge praises as 'an incredible emotional manager.'" — Cleveland Plain Dealer "Toler makes Divorce Court work by employing her past experience as an Administrative Judge in Cleveland Heights Municipal Court. She also uses lessons she learned from her mother, who she said was 'tremendous at understanding people's emotions.'" — Jet "Toler's verdicts [are] homespun wisdom dispensed with a cut-the-bull edge. She [is] as likely to cite her mother's advice as she [is] a precedent-setting decision." — Cleveland Scene "Toler's humor and wit are some of the characteristics that fans of [ Divorce Court ] will pick up on quickly - her no-nonsense human sensibilities are another. Something very endearing about the judge is her perceptive nature for the different types of issues and people that come through her studio courtroom." — Kenya M. Yarbrough, EURWeb.com, PRAISE FOR LYNN TOLER AND HER PREVIOUS BOOK MY MOTHER'S RULES : "Easy-reading prose and a no-nonsense approach will carry readers through this collection of anecdotes and rules for healthier living...the book's strength lies in the sober, no-nonsense advice." - Publishers Weekly "[An] awe-inspiring memoir and self-help guide." - Ebony " My Mother's Rules reveals the complicated life of 47-year-old Toler...and it shines a light on the humble life of Toni Toler, a Columbus stay-at-home mom whom the judge praises as 'an incredible emotional manager.'" - Cleveland Plain Dealer "Toler makes Divorce Court work by employing her past experience as an Administrative Judge in Cleveland Heights Municipal Court. She also uses lessons she learned from her mother, who she said was 'tremendous at understanding people's emotions.'" - Jet "Toler's verdicts [are] homespun wisdom dispensed with a cut-the-bull edge. She [is] as likely to cite her mother's advice as she [is] a precedent-setting decision." - Cleveland Scene "Toler's humor and wit are some of the characteristics that fans of [ Divorce Court ] will pick up on quickly - her no-nonsense human sensibilities are another. Something very endearing about the judge is her perceptive nature for the different types of issues and people that come through her studio courtroom." - Kenya M. Yarbrough, EURWeb.com
Copyright Date
2012
Lccn
2012-009046
Dewey Decimal
306.81
Intended Audience
Trade
Dewey Edition
23

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    This book helped me a lot to start to make a progres in my marriage thank you so much.i really like every page in this book make a lot of good points .this book is amazing for every couple also fot single people so that way they can learn before they got married.

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    She doesn't beat around the bush or take sides she shoots straight. I'd love to meet her.

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    Common sense no longer exists... This is a common sense guide to marrying the right person and keeping the union fulfilling for the rest of your life.

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